Another topic I address in my upcoming book is the fact that our perceptions of the world are always inaccurate. As a performing magician, I experience this regularly, and it is in fact the reason that I can accomplish what I do as a 'weaver of wonders'. Unfortunately we tend to forget that our perceptions are faulty, we then base our beliefs about the world and how it works on those perceptions, and then we more often than not staunchly defend those beliefs as though they were the ultimate truth about the world, even though nothing could be further from the 'truth'.
And therein lies the source of all our unhappiness.
In my book I quote a bumper sticker I once saw: "If you can't change your mind, are you sure you still have one?" What if instead of thinking we "know" what is true, we instead went through life in a state of open-minded curiosity? This attitude is the foundation of all true creativity. And it's the secret to living our lives as the magical, creative beings we were always meant to be.
When life is a continual dance of discovery, it's tough to get bogged down in thinking there's something "wrong" with the way things are, and therefore in resisting them and making ourselves miserable. And ironically, it's our open-mindedness that also allows us to respond more capably to challenges when they do arise and to resolve them more effortlessly.
So the next time you're tempted to think you know better than someone else, stop to remind yourself that it's really nothing more than a belief based on your necessarily limited perceptions of the situation, and see how that shift in perspective serves you to live more peacefully and joyfully. You might just surprise yourself with some real magic!